“HUMAN ENERGY FLOW”
Human energy flow is a concept I discovered while reading “African Holistic Health” by Dr. Laila Afrika (rest in power, peace and love)
This was such an enlightening introduction to a new wave of thoughts that structure how I communicate with other humans. Dr. Afrika explains how feminine and masculine energy has to balance itself within the human body. I found the balance of energies to be imperative for efficient data processing, using discernment, and reacting in a way that best serves you.
As we experience life we are constantly processing information. Women and men take in information differently. Although our process is different, it is more of a complimentary partnership than a fight of opposite sex’s .
Understanding how human energy flows with the complimentary sex may help couples that suffer with communication issues.
Dr. Afrika’s explanation of human energy flow
LETS BREAK IT DOWN
WOMEN (feminine energy)
There are 4 stages women go through before the energy inside us come into balance.
1. She has a full body sense (sight,taste,touch,hear) of what the situation/conversation is.
2. She feels the situation. She feels love/ hate/happy/sad/excited/angry etc.
and most times it is verbally expressed. In this stage the viewpoint is subjective/feeling based
3. She thinks about the facts of what happened with no emotions involved, an objective view point.
3. She thinks about the facts of what happened with no emotions involved, an objective view point.
4. She comes Into balance. Her emotions and thoughts harmonize and she’s able to express herself in a balanced state of being.
MEN ( MASCULINE ENERGY )
1. He has a full body sense (sight,taste,touch,hear) of what the situation/conversation is.
2. He
thinks about the facts of what happened with no emotions involved, an objective view point.
3. He feels the situation. He feels love/ hate/happy/sad/excited/angry etc.
and most times it is verbally expressed. In this stage the viewpoint is subjective/feeling based
4. He
comes Into balance. His emotions and thoughts harmonize and he is able to express himself in a balanced state of being.
LETS GET INTO “STAGNANT ENERGY”
One major issue that we see in men and women alike, is the tendency to stay in one stage for prolonged periods of time. Although it is good to dedicate time and meditate in each stage, dwelling in one stage of the cycle, stops the flow. When the cycle is stuck, Human energy becomes depleted, causing depression, an inability to process reality and connect with others, a distorted view of reality, becoming over/under active, and a host of other debilitating factors.
For example, women tend to stay in the “feeling” stage (stage 2) longer than needed .. too long rather.
This looks great when love and happiness is in the air and everything is all good, but when vengeance, hate, and sadness enters the chat, women often become destructive and spiteful. They stack feeling on top of feeling, holding on to emotional trauma, and use the pain to form their reality. Women who dwell in the second stage misinterpret their emotional analysis of the world as “intuition”. Although intuition is a powerful tool, when you have a distorted sense of reality, this intuitive power is diluted with illusion.
This looks great when love and happiness is in the air and everything is all good, but when vengeance, hate, and sadness enters the chat, women often become destructive and spiteful. They stack feeling on top of feeling, holding on to emotional trauma, and use the pain to form their reality. Women who dwell in the second stage misinterpret their emotional analysis of the world as “intuition”. Although intuition is a powerful tool, when you have a distorted sense of reality, this intuitive power is diluted with illusion.
Now, men for example,
they tend to stay in their second stage. “The logic”, the “masculine energy stage”. Imagine a man who is hurt by a relationship, and money issues were a problem.
If he sits in the 2nd stage, he will only process what happed in a logical way. A very linear way of thinking for example,
The problem : “ a woman left me because I didn’t make enough money”
The thought : “if I had enough money should would’ve stayed”
The solution: “make enough money so the next woman doesn’t leave me”
They tend to conclude that every woman is the same, and issues similar to this have the same simple answers. Granted, understanding relationship issues as a math problem, could sum things up rather quickly. Difficulty inches in when the subjective viewpoint is ignored, when he refuse to acknowledge he feels. Once a man finally allows/force himself to fully experience his feelings, he may not know how to verbally express how he feels, even disappointed in himself for feeling. An overload of sensation can send him into a deep depression, going through the motions of all the human senses at once. He may feel isolated, extreme discomfort and immobile.
IN CONCLUSION
Guiding the feminine and masculine energy back to balance, allows your mind-body-sprit, to experience, what science calls,
“homeostasis”
Disease, discomfort and delusion cannot live in a mind-body-spirit that is actively experiencing equilibrium.
I hope this reaches you well ✨🌱⏳